It happened to me again this morning.
I was busy working.
Providing for my family.
Being creative.
And I spontaneously thought of my children.
As I pictured them in my mind, a chain of reactions followed:
My eyes gleamed.
The corners of my mouth curled upward.
My dimples deepened.
My pulse quickened.
Warmth flooded my heart.
I thought not of their immaturity.
Or flaws.
Or my disappointment with their behavior.
(Although those things certainly exist.)
I dwelt on their beauty as people.
Their uniqueness as individuals.
Of how I love them enough to give them my all.
I longed to see them grow.
To laugh until they can’t catch their breath.
To love selflessly and deeply
To savor every moment.
To thrive.
I wanted nothing but good things for them.
If you are a parent, you’ve likely felt the same.
If not, perhaps you can imagine yourself doing so.
Then it hit me:
THIS is what happens when God thinks of US.
The same light.
Love.
And warmth.
The same affection.
And desire for our best.
Why do we imagine otherwise?
Why do we assume that God focuses instead on our flaws?
Shortcomings?
Deficiencies?
Failures?
(Although those things definitely exist.)
I believe God thinks of us often:
“How precious are your thoughts concerning me, O God!
How vast in number they are!
If I try to count them,
there would be more of them than there are grains of sand.
- Psalms 139:17-18
And I’ll bet He smiles wide.

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August 16, 2011 at 6:16 am
Casey
Thanks for sharing this, Fred! It was just the reminder I needed to hear today
August 16, 2011 at 8:45 am
jafred
My pleasure Casey. I need this kind of reminder regularly myself!
August 16, 2011 at 3:21 pm
Marty Shackelford
it is my opinion as well that only when we have children do we have the potential to more fully understand our place in the heart of God. This fact of being “fathered by God,” (as John Eldridge puts it) really broke open my heart and set me free! My wife and my daughters–all beautiful blessings from God–have fleshed out His love in powerful ways! God’s patience with this “wounded and unruly” child is eternally appreciated!
August 16, 2011 at 3:26 pm
jafred
God definitely uses my family to teach me too Marty. I’m so excited to hear about the freedom and victory you are finding lately. Miss you buddy!